Keep a food diary. Carry a notebook with you and write down everything that you eat and drink, and the time of day. You may begin to notice a pattern. Do you tend to snack during the late morning? This could be because you skipped breakfast. Do you fill up with snacks after dinner? You are probably snacking while watching tv, and aren't even aware exactly how much you are eating. By focussing on these patterns, you will be able to change your habits accordingly.
For losing weight, nothing is better than eating high amounts of fiber. Fiber is found in whole grain foods, nuts and plenty of fruits and vegetables. Fiber takes longer for the body to break it down, so you feel full for much longer and won't start craving snacks and unhealthy foods.
To help you reach your weight loss goals when starting out, you should make your goals reasonable. One to two pounds a week is what most people should aim to hit. A person should not try to aim for more than that because you want to be sure to take a healthy and safe route. Also aiming for a correct number will help you to succeed, not fail.
Finding the support you need from others within the dieting community will help motivate you to lose more weight. You won't have to go out and join one of those weight-loss centers. You can simply log onto the internet and find forums and other social communities, where you can share your experiences with people just like you.