You should try to make it your goal to lose at least one pound each week. If you are not losing this you should try to make an adjustment to reach this goal. One pound each week ensures that you are slowly losing weight at a healthy rate.
When working to lose weight, nothing is quite as important as keeping your goals in front of you. Keep a pair of those huge jeans or a picture of yourself handy, and when you need the inspiration and to remember why you're trying to lose weight, you can get some quick visual motivation.
Finding the support you need from others within the dieting community will help motivate you to lose more weight. You won't have to go out and join one of those weight-loss centers. You can simply log onto the internet and find forums and other social communities, where you can share your experiences with people just like you.
When you're on a diet, you don't have to stand in front of a mirror and convince yourself of your self-worth, but you do have to learn to love yourself and who you are becoming. The fact here is that you have to love yourself and actually want to get fit and healthy. If you can't do that, your diet is going to fail.
Try to avoid any fad diets, like 30-day programs or diets that prohibit eating whatsoever, i.e. liquid diets. While these types of programs might produce short-term results, they do absolutely nothing to get at the root causes of why people gain weight in the first place. In other words, they're worthless.